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Al Young "The dating coach"

I am Al Young "The Dating Coach". I help men date women. Free coaching call. Please call, text, or mail me anytime for advice on dating women, and self-improvement. I produced the music video. Below are 12 of my free dating tips for men.

And so that you can see me speak, here is a link to a

1-minute video of me talking about an internet TV show I am producing: https://alyoung.net/al-young-tv-shows

Al Young

The Dating Coach

(520) 338-1004

Email: al@alyoung.net

Tucson, Arizona

Dating Tip #1:

If you don't know women to date, what do you do? Go to where single women are:

Grocery store on Friday night (the vegetable section)

Dog parks

Pickleball public courts

Exercise classes

Dating Tip #2:

Remember: There is no magical line that will make a woman fall hard for you. Doing your best to look good, never showing desperation, focusing on your career, and conveying masculinity is what matters most.

Dating Tip #3:

Never talk about a depressing event to a woman you just met. Save it for when you’re in an actual relationship or after several dates. You want to convey early on to a woman that interacting with you is a positive experience.

Dating Tip #4:

Happy thoughts only. Even if your actual life is depressing and full of turmoil, you don't want that piece of information being advertised. People do not like misery or want to be around the miserable and unlucky.

Dating Tip #5:

If there's a guy you know that makes money, exercises, and is always doing something significant in life, try to be friends with him. Surround yourself with successful people.

Dating Tip #6:

Have an adult haircut. Haircuts are not meant to express yourself. You’re a grown masculine man. Express yourself with your words. Your hair is meant to convey you’re mature, have your life together, and can provide a woman security. Opt in for traditional mature hairstyles. Don’t try to get the same haircut as teenagers. You are not 16. Look like an adult.

Dating Tip #7:

There’s nothing more unappealing to a woman than seeing a guy with a hunched over back with the weight of the world on his shoulders. Life is hard but it’s not THAT hard. Stick your chest out and show some pride in your body language.

Dating Tip #8:

Looking defeated is not arousing to women. Body language is linked to confidence. If your body is screaming low self-esteem, then a woman won’t feel safe or protected with you, one of many desires they seek out.

Dating Tip #9:

You have it better than most people. Stop sleeping, complaining, and procrastinating. Take advantage of your blessings.

Dating Tip #10:

There are 2 ways to get better at talking to women which are: 1. Talk to women 2. Practice cold commenting

The biggest issue most guys have when talking to women is they don’t know what to say which hurts their verbal confidence. Many of the best communicators talk instinctually. They contribute to conversations with ease no matter what the scenario or occasion is. This is a rare ability but there’s a way to develop it.

Here’s what you do:

Start talking to women as often as you can This step requires a mindset adjustment. You should be entering into conversations with women without wanting anything from them. Don’t have any expectations. You’re not trying to get her number. You're not trying to take her out on a date. All you’re doing is trying to talk to her for 15-30 seconds. You want to get in the reps of actually opening up your mouth and saying something that isn't cringe or stupid. The more you talk to a woman, the better you'll get at having the conversation flow naturally.

Dating Tip #11:

Practice cold commenting. If you see a woman at the salsa section at the supermarket, point to one of the brands and say “watch out for that one. It’s spicy.” If you see her looking at muffins, say “that one is pretty good.” If you see a woman walking outside with a hat on, say “I like your hat. Did you get it at that vintage shop down the street?” More often than not, women will talk to you for a few seconds. This will drastically increase your conversational confidence. Once you make a cold comment, see how long you can extend the conversation for.

If the opportunity presents itself where the girl is showing you high interest and is very engaged in talking to you, then you should ask for her number. But in general, this exercise does not require you to try and close. You're just getting your reps in to get more comfortable with talking to women.

Dating Tip #12:

Important recommendation: You must look approachable. Meaning, you need to be groomed and dressed decently. You want to be as confident as possible. Also, if you're looking good, this will increase the chances of a girl showing high interest giving you the opportunity to try and close by getting her number. See how long you can last with carrying the conversation until you run out of things to say. Do this enough times and not only are you now comfortable with coming up to women, you’ll be able to improvise better in a conversation. You can’t get better at talking unless you do it often.